About Us

Brother Spear & Dr. Ra Heter (aka Dr. Patricia Dixon) are dating, relationships, marriage and family educators and authors, the creators and hosts of Friday Night Love talk show, and the creators of Eligible Men of Atlanta.  They are available for talks and individual and couple consultations.

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Our Books

Soul Partners: An Energy Healing Spiritual Guide to Attract and Keep Love by [Ra Heter, Mu Skher Aakhu]

Your Soul’s Partner: Seven Steps to Attract Love and a Relationship of Bliss

Your soul left the Universe Soul to experience life on Earth. Your soul came to Earth this time to fulfill a purpose and learn lessons so that you can continue to evolve spiritually. Your soul’s partner is the person to help you on this journey.

Your Soul’s Partner is a self-help guide that combines ancient spiritual tools with energy healing practices to help you attract your soul’s partner for this life, and if you are already in a relationship or married, to help you continue your journey’s toward spiritual evolvement, enjoy a relationship of bliss, and find heaven on Earth.

Chapters

  1. Seven Aspects of the Self
  2. Shaping Factors
  3. The Unfolding Self
  4. Love and the Wounded Child
  5. The Seven Chakras
  6. Healing the Energy Body
  7. Seven Steps to Healing & Awakening
  8. Seven Principles of Dating
  9. Seven Compatibilities
  10. Talking & Listening With Care
  11. Sexual Healing & Bliss
  12.  Stairway to Heaven

African American Relationships, Marriages and Families: An Introduction–2nd EDITION with two new chapters!

African American Relationships, Marriages, and Families, Second Edition is a historically and culturally centered research-based text designed for use in undergraduate, graduate, and community-based courses on African American relationships, marriages, and families. Complete with exercises at the end of each chapter, this volume can be used by current and future helping professionals as well as singles and couples themselves, as a  guide to increase self awareness,  and respect and appreciation for difference. In addition, singles and couples learn skills for effective communication and conflict resolution and ultimately how to develop and maintain healthy relationships, marriages, and families. This second edition includes updates and revisions to current chapters and also features two new chapters: one on parenting and one on same-gender loving/LGBTQ.

Chapters

  • In Cultural Perspective
  • In Historical Perspective
  • Gender
  • Love
  • African American Women
  • African American Men
  • Dating & Choosing a Partner
  • Sexuality
  • Communication and Conflict Resolution
  • Money Matters
  • Healthy Dieting
  • Parenting
  • LGBT/Same-Gender Loving
  • The Spiritual Journey

Review

“Dr. Dixon’s second edition is a state of the art masterpiece on African American relationships, marriages and families for teachers, researchers, and clinicians. Thoroughly researched, the author explains current phenomena through a historical cultural lens. While the purpose of the book is to be used as a tool for pre-marriage education and counseling, it is a must read for all who would understand African American Relationships.”
-David Knox, Ph.D. professor, East Carolina University & co-author of Choices in Relationships.

See AARMS (African American Relationships and Marriage Strengthening) Paper for Information about how to Develop a Course

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African American Male/Female Relationships

African American Male/Female Relationships: A Reader examines the social, economic, political, and cultural forces that present challenges to the formation and development of healthy relationships and, ultimately, marriages and families. The anthology pushes students to think critically about how ideologies and values stemming from these forces shape their own ideas, values, and perceptions and to examine their own approach to relationships. The text is divided into eleven topical units:

  • Love
  • Gender
  • Dating
  • Negative Images and Stereotypes
  • Health and Nutrition
  • Intimate Partner Violence
  • Parenting
  • Sexuality/Sexual Health
  • Incarceration
  • Alternative Lifestyles
  • Marriage

The journal articles and book chapters included in the reader are critical for the serious study of African American male-female relationships.

African American Male/Female Relationships: A Reader is designed to be used with African American Relationships, Marriages, and Families: An Introduction. It is also an excellent supplemental reader for Sociology or African American Studies courses that focus on marriage and family.

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