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Gangs and other criminal organizations have their own set of ethics, codes and rules they enforce. Some are brutal and some are rather bizarre.
Decide for yourself which is which in our gallery of these rituals.less
Gangs and other criminal organizations have their own set of ethics, codes and rules they enforce. Some are brutal and some are rather bizarre.
Decide for yourself which is which in our gallery of these … more
Photo: SALVADOR MELENDEZ, AP
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Knights Templar
The offshoot branch of the La Familia Michoacana has been involved in bizarre, religious-like practices. Recently, a government official reported the group had begun rooting out potential spies by having recruits eat the hearts of their murder victims.
Source: Reuters
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Knights Templar
The offshoot branch of the La Familia Michoacana has been involved in bizarre, religious-like practices. Recently, a government official reported the group had begun rooting out potential spies
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Photo: Eduardo Verdugo, STF
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Latin Kings
Gang members who stray from the group’s code of conduct can be butchered at will. One banishment ritual called “stripped” involves searing off a member’s tattoo and carving the letter “X” through the seared flesh.
Source: Orlando Sentinel
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Latin Kings
Gang members who stray from the group’s code of conduct can be butchered at will. One banishment ritual called “stripped” involves searing off a member’s tattoo and carving the letter “X” through the
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Photo: PEDRO ARMESTRE, Getty Images, AFP
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MS-13 or Mara Salvatrucha
A collegiate report on sexual violence referenced an August 2002 incident involving a female initiate. Reportedly, the initiation ritual is called “sexed in” and involves several gang members having sex with the initiate.
Source: National Gang Crime Research Center
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MS-13 or Mara Salvatrucha
A collegiate report on sexual violence referenced an August 2002 incident involving a female initiate. Reportedly, the initiation ritual is called “sexed in” and involves several gang
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Photo: Michael Johnson
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Sons of Malcolm X
Now disbanded, the New Jersey gang’s initiation right had aspiring members committing murder.
Source: Associated Press
Sons of Malcolm X
Now disbanded, the New Jersey gang’s initiation right had aspiring members committing murder.
Source: Associated Press
Photo: Paul Buckowski
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Tango Blast
The initiation rite for this Texas gang is the “cora-check.” It involves one recruit squaring off against two members in a fisticuffs match. Unlike other “beat-ins,” this ritual is fast and somewhat cleaner.
Source: Houston Press
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Tango Blast
The initiation rite for this Texas gang is the “cora-check.” It involves one recruit squaring off against two members in a fisticuffs match. Unlike other “beat-ins,” this ritual is fast and somewhat
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Aryan Brotherhood
In 2006, a convicted member of the gang told Reuters how initiates were inducted into “the Brand.” Members had to kill someone in a “spectacular fashion.” The interviewee claimed he stabbed a fellow inmate more than 30 times in full view of guards and other prisoners.
Source: Reuters
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Aryan Brotherhood
In 2006, a convicted member of the gang told Reuters how initiates were inducted into “the Brand.” Members had to kill someone in a “spectacular fashion.” The interviewee claimed he stabbed a
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Crips
Though now incorporated into mainstream entertainment, the C-Walk or Crip Walk dance still has gang connotations.
Crips
Though now incorporated into mainstream entertainment, the C-Walk or Crip Walk dance still has gang connotations.
Photo: Billy Smith II, Houston Chronicle
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Zetas
It’s been reported and rumored that many in the Mexican cartels have been indoctrinated by the Santa Muerte cult. A GQ magazine reported on Zeta follower had boasted of sacrificing two teenage rivals, slitting their bellies and “spilling their blood as an offering.”
Source: GQ Magazine
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Zetas
It’s been reported and rumored that many in the Mexican cartels have been indoctrinated by the Santa Muerte cult. A GQ magazine reported on Zeta follower had boasted of sacrificing two teenage rivals,
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Photo: Julio Cesar Aguilar, Getty Images, AFP
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Bandidos Motorcycle Club
Like the Hell’s Angels, the initiation rite for new Bandidos involves urine. After passing the first two trials, members urinate on a new recruit to finish the third and final step.
Source: National Geographic
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Bandidos Motorcycle Club
Like the Hell’s Angels, the initiation rite for new Bandidos involves urine. After passing the first two trials, members urinate on a new recruit to finish the third and final
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Hell’s Angels
Journalist Hunter S. Thompson wrote a book about his travels with the motorcycle group back in the 60s. One of the weirder rituals practiced by the gang involved “baptizing” a new member with a slop of feces and urine.
Source: Hell’s Angels: A Strange and Terrible Saga
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Hell’s Angels
Journalist Hunter S. Thompson wrote a book about his travels with the motorcycle group back in the 60s. One of the weirder rituals practiced by the gang involved “baptizing” a new member with a
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Photo: Michael Macor
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Hell’s Angels
Also in his book, Hunter S. Thompson noted one initiation rite involved recruits bringing a woman or girl who would consent to having sex with each member of the club. These women were referred to as “sheep.”
Source: Hell’s Angels: A Strange and Terrible Saga
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Hell’s Angels
Also in his book, Hunter S. Thompson noted one initiation rite involved recruits bringing a woman or girl who would consent to having sex with each member of the club. These women were referred to
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Photo: Paul Chinn, The Chronicle
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United Bamboo gang
In an August 1986 Reuters report, undercover New York City policemen took part in a blood ritual to infiltrate the gang. The ritual involved making various vows and drinking a glass of wine that was mingled with a drop of each initiate’s blood.
Source: Reuters
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United Bamboo gang
In an August 1986 Reuters report, undercover New York City policemen took part in a blood ritual to infiltrate the gang. The ritual involved making various vows and drinking a glass of wine
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Photo: Karen Warren, Staff
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Bloods
In 2012, a Syracuse teenager pleaded guilty to assaulting two men as part of an initiation. The men were chosen at random.
Source: CNY Central
Bloods
In 2012, a Syracuse teenager pleaded guilty to assaulting two men as part of an initiation. The men were chosen at random.
Source: CNY Central
Photo: Nick Miroff, The Washington Post, Getty Images
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Latin Kings
In 2013, an initiate of the gang went on trial for attempting to stab the brother of an imprisoned rival gang member. According to testimony, the gang ordered the attack because they were unable to reach the imprisoned rival so they opted for family instead.
Source: Times Herald-Record
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Latin Kings
In 2013, an initiate of the gang went on trial for attempting to stab the brother of an imprisoned rival gang member. According to testimony, the gang ordered the attack because they were unable to
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Triads
A hit man employed by one of the Chinese crime syndicates told a British court he and several other men were stripped to their underpants and made to say a number of vows in a restaurant basement. The ritual included a number of papercrafts and burning joss sticks.
Source: The Independent
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Triads
A hit man employed by one of the Chinese crime syndicates told a British court he and several other men were stripped to their underpants and made to say a number of vows in a restaurant basement. The
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Photo: Gerhard Joren, Getty Images, LightRocket
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Yakuza
The Japanese crime syndicates are steeped in old tradition and rituals. One of these is yubitsume which is practiced on members who have committed offenses against the organization. Members amputate portions of their finger as a sign of contrition and loyalty.
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Yakuza
The Japanese crime syndicates are steeped in old tradition and rituals. One of these is yubitsume which is practiced on members who have committed offenses against the organization. Members amputate
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Photo: TOSHIFUMI KITAMURA, Getty Images, AFP
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Yakuza
Though attitudes are changing somewhat, the Tokyo Times reports tattoos are still kind of a taboo among Japan’s citizenry because of its ties to the Yakuza. Members are adorned with art that stretches from head to toe.
Source: The Tokyo Times
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Yakuza
Though attitudes are changing somewhat, the Tokyo Times reports tattoos are still kind of a taboo among Japan’s citizenry because of its ties to the Yakuza. Members are adorned with art that stretches
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Photo: Jeremy Sutton-Hibbert, Getty Images
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Italian mafia
A police recording of Italian mobsters caught several individuals taking oaths to join a secret society within the organization. Cyanide capsules and a revolver were present as a warning to traitors.
Source: Daily Mail
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Italian mafia
A police recording of Italian mobsters caught several individuals taking oaths to join a secret society within the organization. Cyanide capsules and a revolver were present as a warning to
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La Cosa Nostra
In 1985, a member of the mafia group recalled his orientation into the Palermo-area organization. He was made to rub blood from his finger on a small picture of an unknown saint while reciting an oath. The picture was then later burned.
Source: LA Times
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La Cosa Nostra
In 1985, a member of the mafia group recalled his orientation into the Palermo-area organization. He was made to rub blood from his finger on a small picture of an unknown saint while reciting an
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Carolyn Hax: Marriage counseling stalls when she realizes she just doesn’t like her husband
Adapted from a recent online discussion.
Hi, Carolyn:
At what point do you know it’s time to end a marriage? I found out almost a year ago that my spouse had cheated. We have a young child, and I initially stayed because of our kid. We’re in counseling and both doing everything the counselor says, and spouse is doing everything I ask, sometimes without me asking, and trying to meet my needs. We’re both working on ourselves, too.
But my heart is not in it. I think my heart was in it at the beginning, but now that the shock has worn off, I’m just feeling blah about the whole thing. Is this part of the process? Our counselor says it is, and we can try to get through it, but I wake up every day wishing I was waking up alone.
I’m not even angry; I just don’t like the person I’m waking up next to. I feel like I’m wasting my time. I talk to the counselor about all of this, and she tried to be upbeat about getting past it, but it hasn’t been getting better.
— Should I Stay or Should I Go?
At this point I would be asking the therapist what the basis is for her optimism — besides her apparent preference that you stay married? (Problematic if true.)
If your current unhappiness is indeed just one stage in a longer process, then what are the other stages she has seen? And what is the general emotional pathway from anger to “I just don’t like the person” to feeling love?
I won’t say “feeling love again,” because there’s no going back, there’s only forward, which will be new regardless of what it is.
If you don’t hear anything from your therapist in response to these questions that you find promising, and if this period of blah dislike is lasting for months without relief, then it’s time for a new therapist and/or a trial separation. Especially with a child, it’s important to move as gradually as you can, and separation is a key step between uninterrupted-months-of-stalled-therapy-and-unhappy-wakeups and ending a marriage.
Just talk to a lawyer before you do anything. Small missteps can have huge consequences.
Re: Stay or Go:
You might also want to try a different therapist. From the way you describe it, it sounds like she is negating how you feel, by repackaging your feelings as “part of the process.”
— Anonymous
Fair point, thanks. Even without that, stuck is stuck and reason enough to consider a change.
Dear Carolyn:
I am a high school teacher. My department chair, “Ken,” occasionally makes laminated signs for everyone in our department to hang on our walls. He uses some special cardstock with historical figures and scenes.
Ken likes to use Comic Sans font and, more often than not, his signs include a typo or grammatical error. If these signs were not made with the special cardstock, I wouldn’t hesitate to reprint my own. Fear is holding me back from rooting through his office when he’s not there to find the cardstock. What should I do?
— A Sign
NO NOT COMIC SANS!!!
Tell him you found a typo and ask if he’d like you to reprint it for him. Everyone needs an editor.