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Planning a wedding isn’t cheap, but more and more often we’re seeing couples ditch traditional ideas in favour of something more creative – and less spendy.

If you’re engaged and worried about how you’re going to manage the ever-growing cost of a wedding you’re not alone – according to a report by Money.co.uk, by 2028, the average nuptials could set couples back £32,064. But there are ideas you can try that’ll make a big difference to your budget.

Megan Fife from Ashleigh Money Saver shared her tips with Cosmopolitan UK for keeping wedding costs low without completely losing sight of your dream wedding:

Get your DIY on

“Homemade invites are super cute, and cost-cutting too,” Megan says. “Use alphabet stamps or watercolour paints to make your invitations look more luxe and less ‘4 year old in art class’.

“You could even craft your own name place cards for the reception. If you’re stuck for inspiration, head to YouTube or Pinterest for loads of gorgeous ideas.”

This one probably works best for those who enjoy getting creative in their spare time; there’s no point dedicating hours of your life to making invites or decorations if you’re not going to enjoy it. But it could also be worth asking family and friends if they want to help – particularly if you can offer them money or a favour in return.

Shop savvy

Here’s a clever tip from Megan: “Don’t wait to buy your bridesmaid dresses nearer to the big day, take advantage of the end-of-season sales and pick up your besties’ gowns when they’re reduced.”

Now is a great time to shop as the sales are reaching an end, which means extra discounts; try Net-a-Porter or ASOS for bargains.

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Ditch the cake

We all know that wedding cakes are ridic expensive (the average one costs around £300, according to Hitched). Save the money and use it towards something you’ll enjoy far more – we’re thinking a nice honeymoon massage.

Megan agrees “If you and your partner aren’t all about the cake and have a swoon-y story about another tasty treat, it would be fun to be non-traditional and have a different dessert. Pick and mix, anyone?”

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Read the small print

It’s not always the big expenses that blow the budget – often, the minor details will be what tip you over the edge.

“When you book a venue, photographer, makeup artist, or anything else for the big day, make sure you’re aware of any hidden costs,” Megan says. “Is your photographer’s booking fee affordable? Could you find a makeup artist who doesn’t charge an expensive deposit?

“A great way to keep track of these pricey add-ons is to create a checklist in your diary, or even in a bullet journal.”

Catch flights, not (stressy finance related) feelings

“Seriously, have you thought about eloping? It can prove so much cheaper than tying the knot in the UK,” Megan says.

And she’s right. The average cost of a wedding overseas, according to Weddings Abroad Guide, is £6,585.

“Plus, when it’s just the two of you, you needn’t worry about those annoying family members twice removed,” Megan says. “If you’re part of a laid-back couple, this could be the perfect option.”

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Lastly, remember to accept help from others. It’s so easy to shoulder the whole burden of wedding planning – and understandable, since you want it just right – but chances are you have a bunch of family and friends that would love to be a part of making your day special. Let them; you’ll be able to save money by doing more at home, and hopefully you’ll look back with fond memories of the time spent together.

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